Thailand’s 24-hour ATM Machines: Farang
Here’s another notecard about Thai bargirl and ‘farang’
relationships and what they are based on.
Some farang not only behaviorally resemble an ATM for
their bargirl girlfriends or Buddha forbid, WIVES… but
for some there is also a physical resemblance which
pushes ALL the right emotional bargirl buttons.
The bigger you are, the more tattoos you have, and the
more bald that you are – you actually physically resemble
an ATM machine. A farang with these attributes is sure
to find success in any bar in Pattaya, Patong, Patpong,
or Phnom…
You can be fat. You can be bald. You can have scars all
over your face, neck, head, chest and feet. You can have
scabies (I think). You can have any woman’s name
tattood anywhere on your body, or multiple women’s
names. You can have 1st wife, 2nd wife, 3rd and her
sister’s names tattood on you as well as the bargirl you
slept with the night before, and STILL the bargirls in
Thailand will find you irresistibly attractive.
You know why the Thai girls are able to pull this trick
off and make so many farang believe that they are
special to the girl in some way?
Because in our home countries NOBODY can lie with
smiles on their faces consistently day after day after
day… or to put it more realistically, farang after farang
after farang after farang. In Thailand – the culture
doesn’t see lying as lying. It’s saving face and allowing
others to save face too. It’s “mai pen rai”. So many
things, small and great can be overlooked. Lies are
not usually challenged seriously, if at all. If the lie
allows someone to save face, then it’s allowed. That
is until someone gets drunk and kills over it.
What 40 year old fat, bald, badly tattood, farang with
smoke-stained teeth and not a friend in the entire
western world would believe for even a minute that
a SUPERHOT 19 year old dancer with a flat stomach
who could model in New York City if she was 9 inches
taller, would enjoy any amount of time with him that
wasn’t going to be compensated generously and
consistently?
WHO, I ask you?
The answer is, every 40+ year old guy in Pattaya,
Patong, or Patpong it seems like.
Stickman’s site and the local forums are just FILLED
with stories from these guys that didn’t see the sick
reality of the game they are pitiful losers of. Some
wise up, others try again and again to find love from
a bargirl whose LIFE is built around getting money
from farangs, lying to farangs so that money can be
incoming from as many farangs as possible at the
same time.
How can you marry a girl like that and expect life to
be roses?
I think I just came up with another notecard, but I’m
on dial-up tonight – TOT ADSL is down tonight in my
town and I’m not motivated to stay on this 33kbps
connection any longer than necessary… so I’ll
just explain below….
The uglier you are – the more desperate the bargirls
know you must be… and so the more confident they
are that they can use you as one of their marionettes
(puppets) in their bargirl game of life.
The UGLIER you are, the more attractive you are
in their eyes because they are not after physical
attractiveness at all. They are after $$$$$. If
you are ugly and have an ATM card, you are the
PRIME target in the sex-tourist areas of Thailand
and, of course other countries.
Most of us KNOW this, but some guys are dating,
getting engaged to, and marrying with bargirls
past or present. The bargirl doesn’t really change
for the better. That’s my belief. She’s incapable
of changing to a be a person that doesn’t worship
the easy money of paid for sexual acts.
I have a friend in Patong that tells me that EVERY
girl there is available for a price. Married or not.
I won’t go so far as to believe that, but I do know
that MANY girls that are there and that are married
ARE available for a price.
Not all are doing it – but maybe your little tee-rak
is making a little shopping money on the side?
All it takes is a half hour…
Did your hunny bunny have 30 minutes to herself
today in Pattaya?
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Hi Vern,
Thanks for the public service messages.
Best wishes,
Lee
I’m new to this site. Reading what you’ve posted. Saddened to say the least to read the uglinest out there. Coming from an Asian descendant family, rooted in Canada and currently living in Malaysia, quite often I am approached by many foreigners for a ‘little fun on the side”? This really infuriates and insults me. However, the women who behaves so cheaply make it bad for all of us. Keep writing. Will add this to my favourites. In the meantime, I am not after anything, just curious what you had to say. Thank you.
Just read this article of yours. Saddened by the uglinest of it all however good that you are posting them. I’m from an Asian descendant family, living in Malaysia and quite often approached by many foreigners thinking perhaps they could get lucky. This really infuriates the living day light out of me which led me to think they must have reasons to think they can get me? Sadly, it is the surrounding society and the way women have poorly and shamely behave around men. Whatever their reasons for justifiying their actions, it reflects so bad on the rest of us. Having been living here for 6 years, born in Manila grew up in Toronto, Canada, I must say there are many more to this Asian countries I appreciate and the ugly ones like what you’ve shared are the ones I try to put a blinder on. It is good that you do tell us though. My parents are from different ethnicity. I do suffer the occasional verbal advances and unwanted stares by many strangers. Anyhow, thanks for writing this. Will continue to read what you have to say. Wish you well in your stay in Thailand. It is still a beautiful place to be apart from all that stains it. Cheers! Lucinda
Hi Lucinda, I am so glad you wrote, because you reminded me of another article I need to write about what it must feel like for GOOD girls in Thailand to be approached by sex-tourists. I had a girl in my English class – she was 19 yrs old that related to me some experiences while doing an internship at a Pattaya hotel. She worked front desk and was asked by numerous hotel guests (farang) if she would sleep with them for 500-2000 baht. Now, your comment about it happening to you in Malaysia reminded me. It must really suck to be a girl here and have to deal with it in your face like that. I wrote you on email – write back if you find the time!
When poverty strikes, utilising natural resources – your own body to earn food and living is historically proven.
Further more there is a demand in the market that those Farang willing to pay for a bargirl. So, why bother to tell all these American foreigners about the Thai bargirls’ behaviour.
The bargirls are just human, they are from different family background, different education background and different mentality. We should have sympathy to them.
If there is no Farang in Thailand, they will not be any bargirls, prostitutes….etc..
Demand = supply!!!