Here’s another notecard about Thai bargirl and ‘farang’ relationships and what they are based on.
Some farang not only behaviorally resemble an ATM for their bargirl girlfriends or Buddha forbid, WIVES… but
for some there is also a physical resemblance which pushes ALL the right emotional bargirl buttons.
The bigger you are, the more tattoos you have, and the more bald that you are – you actually physically resemble an ATM machine. A farang with these attributes is sure
to find success in any bar in Pattaya, Patong, Patpong, or Phnom…
You can be fat. You can be bald. You can have scars all over your face, neck, head, chest and feet. You can have
scabies (I think). You can have any woman’s name tattood anywhere on your body, or multiple women’s names. You can have 1st wife, 2nd wife, 3rd and her sister’s names tattood on you as well as the bargirl you slept with the night before, and STILL the bargirls in
Thailand will find you irresistibly attractive.
You know why the Thai girls are able to pull this trick off and make so many farang believe that they are
special to the girl in some way?
Because in our home countries NOBODY can lie with smiles on their faces consistently day after day after day… or to put it more realistically, farang after farang after farang after farang. In Thailand – the culture doesn’t see lying as lying. It’s saving face and allowing others to save face too. It’s “mai pen rai”. So many things, small and great can be overlooked. Lies are not usually challenged seriously, if at all. If the lie allows someone to save face, then it’s allowed. That is until someone gets drunk and kills over it.
What 40 year old fat, bald, badly tattood, farang with smoke-stained teeth and not a friend in the entire western world would believe for even a minute that a SUPERHOT 19 year old dancer with a flat stomach who could model in New York City if she was 9 inches taller, would enjoy any amount of time with him that wasn’t going to be compensated generously and consistently?
WHO, I ask you?
The answer is, every 40+ year old guy in Pattaya, Patong, or Patpong it seems like.
Stickman’s site and the local forums are just FILLED with stories from these guys that didn’t see the sick reality of the game they are pitiful losers of. Some wise up, others try again and again to find love from a bargirl whose LIFE is built around getting money from farangs, lying to farangs so that money can be incoming from as many farangs as possible at the same time.
How can you marry a girl like that and expect life to be roses?
I think I just came up with another notecard, but I’m on dial-up tonight – TOT ADSL is down tonight in my town and I’m not motivated to stay on this 33kbps connection any longer than necessary… so I’ll just explain below….
The uglier you are – the more desperate the bargirls know you must be… and so the more confident they are that they can use you as one of their marionettes (puppets) in their bargirl game of life.
The UGLIER you are, the more attractive you are in their eyes because they are not after physical attractiveness at all. They are after $$$$$. If you are ugly and have an ATM card, you are the PRIME target in the sex-tourist areas of Thailand and, of course other countries.
Most of us KNOW this, but some guys are dating, getting engaged to, and marrying with bargirls past or present. The bargirl doesn’t really change for the better. That’s my belief. She’s incapable of changing to a be a person that doesn’t worship the easy money of paid for sexual acts.
I have a friend in Patong that tells me that EVERY girl there is available for a price. Married or not. I won’t go so far as to believe that, but I do know that MANY girls that are there and that are married ARE available for a price.
Not all are doing it – but maybe your little tee-rak is making a little shopping money on the side?
All it takes is a half hour…
Did your hunny bunny have 30 minutes to herself today in Pattaya?